A pattern tracker for relationships, not a diary
Single events are easy to dismiss. Patterns are harder to ignore. Flag Tracker turns scattered observations into a timeline you can actually read.
Why it works
- Visual timeline shows red and green flags by week and month, with intensity.
- Automatic post-honeymoon shift detection and recurring red flag alerts.
- Compare partners side by side to see how each relationship feels over time.
- Backed by Gottman's ratio research and Charlot et al. (2023) on early warning patterns.
Frequently asked questions
How long does it take to see a pattern?
Research suggests problematic patterns become visible within roughly three months of dating. The earlier you start logging, the clearer the picture.
Does it predict whether a relationship will work?
No. It is a reflection tool, not a prediction engine. It helps you see your own observations in one place so you can decide what they mean.
Can I export my data?
Yes. Full GDPR-compliant data export is available, and you can delete your account and data at any time.